![]() "If you use sex as the reason to throw a relationship away, I think it's a very shallow reason." ~ That was one of the answers to my question of: "Does sex matter in a relationship?" Sex does matter. I find it matters to most people. Don't ask me how I know this but...apparently men don't like for their women grabbing them by the collar and demanding an answer to..."How many times can we have sex a week?" They tend to want sex to just happen. That's fantastic when you have an assertive male. When you have a "doesn't make the first move guy?" Well...your partner will either learn to take control or find someone who will...take control. Sorry guys that third option of ~ she'll find a way to please the both of us ~ is in the same category of being "How many times can we have sex a week!!!??". Back to Does sex matter? Yes it does. Call me shallow. Is it a reason to break-up with someone? If it's a major factor, yes. However, that 3rd option has worked quite well for me. How do I know it's working? Ummm...I don't. My guy is only open so much. {Asking detailed questions about sex is OFF the list of acceptable} So, pleasing "us" may only be pleasing "me" ~ but at least he's getting laid. Or, maybe -- I am. Yeah--that doesn't sound quiet right to me either--so I guess we BOTH are getting laid. If I don't stop now...I'm going to digress into tiny-minutia subjects...I'll let you do that. Oh...and I dare you to try and tell me an acceptable fourth option :) |
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