There's a lot of connotations that come with sexy things. Lingerie, toys, strip bars, pole dancing...
We feel ashamed for having sex, wanting sex or thinking about sex, yet we want to be sexy. We want to be desired. But we pull back and avoid intimacy and contact and...things that might make us sexy.
Take pole dancing...your first thought might be a seedy bar in downtown with women of loose morals grinding on a phallic symbol. But there are people out there that see pole dancing as a way to express themselves. These people are serious about their sport--yes the SPORT of Pole Dancing!
How amazing is that? Taking something sexy that has taboo undertones and making it safe, socially acceptable and bringing class to something that has such a bad rap for being "ugly" if you're involved. Go to the link below to watch this video and you might have a different opinion about this beautiful sport. Pole dancing men and women are sexy and play hard!