The Sex Question

"If you use sex as the reason to throw a relationship away, I think it's a very shallow reason."

~ That was one of the answers to my question of: "Does sex matter in a relationship?"

Sex does matter. I find it matters to most people.

Don't ask me how I know this but...apparently men don't like for their women grabbing them by the collar and demanding an answer to..."How many times can we have sex a week?"

They tend to want sex to just happen.

That's fantastic when you have an assertive male.

When you have a "doesn't make the first move guy?" Well...your partner will either learn to take control or find someone who will...take control.
 
Sorry guys that third option of ~ she'll find a way to please the both of us ~ is in the same category of being "How many times can we have sex a week!!!??".

Back to Does sex matter? Yes it does. Call me shallow.

Is it a reason to break-up with someone?

If it's a major factor, yes.

However, that 3rd option has worked quite well for me.

How do I know it's working?

Ummm...I don't.

My guy is only open so much. {Asking detailed questions about sex is OFF the list of acceptable}

So, pleasing "us" may only be pleasing "me" ~ but at least he's getting laid. Or, maybe -- I am. Yeah--that doesn't sound quiet right to me either--so I guess we BOTH are getting laid. If I don't stop now...I'm going to digress into tiny-minutia subjects...I'll let you do that. Oh...and I dare you to try and tell me an acceptable fourth option :)

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